I don't know about you, but I really hate to fail. I am willing to do almost anything to avoid failing. I hate it. I am willing to do things I otherwise wouldn't want to do, only if it means I can avoid failing at something. It's not so much about not getting what I want, however. I think, in isolation, I can grapple with that outcome and figure out what to do next. The thing we seem to be afraid of is failing in front of others. We worry about what they'll think of us and our reputation. Our reputation is our brand, after all. But maybe instead of thinking about this in terms of a binary "pass, fail" set of options, what if the reputation is a set of options surrounding what you do about failure. And maybe you were putting entirely too much pressure on yourself to achieve one outcome over another. And so that is our struggle, our call to action. Fail - fail to allow yourself to grow. Fail - fail out of ...
This is officially a call to action: fail more. Do you ever feel like you're afraid to lose or fail? Do you think that fear prevents you from doing things that you want to do? The answer to both of those questions - for nearly every segment of our population - is yes. They have been a resounding "yes" for me and for the vast majority of my life. What's interesting is that, as a child, I was less fearful. Part of that was knowing that I had some semblance of a support system to catch me when I fell. My parents weren't always there for me - with all respect to them and their own struggles - but I knew there were certain teachers I could call upon if needed. When we get older, we become that trusted adult for others, but what happens when we still need those trusted adults and mentors in our life? For me, I reached a point where the torch was handed off to me, but I was not done needing help, myself. In the process, I tripped over myself figuring o...